Hello everybody! I am Carmen, nice to meet you 🙂 I have 26 years old and I am teacher so I went to Poland trying to learn about a different type of education, improve my habilities to talk in english and make new friends from different countries.
I am not going to lie to you, leaving your country and your comfort zone to start again in another place is not easy. You will find a lot of challenges which you will need to deal with but it’s worth it.
When I arrived there I had another idea about how my experience will be so when you have expectations and after the reality is different you feel disappointed but in this moment you can choose between two options: the first one is leave it and the second one is stay there and accept that the things aren’t what you expected but this doesn’t mean that are not going to be good for you. In my case I decided the second option and the beginning was hard: cultural shock, obstacles with the language, loneliness sometimes… but in that moment I found myself as a friend so I supported and helped myself to improve my situation and found solutions to the problems that I had: I was working in a school with little children that almost couldn’t speak any english so I talked to my coordinator to express him that I need to do some changes in my schedule adapted to my needs; In my house at the beginning I was living only with an old man and we didn’t have too much communication but after a younger boy appeared so we made and effort to create an atmosphere more familiar; About my social life we were only two volunteers living in my city (me and my friend Elif) so I tried to go out to different places to meet people like exchange language clubs, pubs… and I tried to contact with volunteer from my program that live in other cities or volunteers from other programs that live in my city.
So after that my house became a space in which I can feel relaxed because I really had a good coexistence with my housemates. In school, I used the translator to communicate with the little children when I needed to and also I tried to learn some polish but I spent more time with the older ones, teaching them English and Spanish. I even had my own Spanish club and my girls were amazing! Also we created a board game (me and my partner Elif) for play with the children of the school trying to connect her culture (Turkish), mine (Spanish) and the Polish one so it was a good way to learn from our differences. To be honest I’m really grateful that I could take part in this amazing educational community and about the things that they gave to us and we gave to them. There were lovely teachers working there and I’ve learned a lot from them, also from my partner Elif who is not a teacher but she really had good abilities to teach and a lot of love to give me everyday 🙂
Also I spend my free time with some volunteers and other people from different countries and we traveled together, we met to play board games, we went dancing in a pub or drinking coffee in the evening and chatting. So I realized that we had points in common but also some cultural differences and that was amazing. I believe that everybody could enjoy making friends from other countries and cultures and this is the way we could cure racism.
Also I liked to spend time alone so I traveled around, I visted parks, I went to museums, I tried new food… and I found Poland georgeous! so I really recommend you nowadays to go there. They have a hard, but interesting history, nice places to see and good food to try.
After this experience I can say that I’ve reflected a lot and I’ve changed the things in my life that I don’t want to have anymore and take the ones that I want to have forever on it, so I could say that I am a better person, not only for myself but for others. I grew up on any level and I am really grateful about having the opportunity to enjoy this programme.
If I need to give you advice, I would like to tell you that if you have the chance to do volunteering, just do it. You will find the real value of it: what you learn and what you can give to the others because I think that volunteering is bidirectional: you give and receive something at the same time. And maybe it’s not how you expected it before, but it could be even better. So open your mind and try it, I am sure that you won’t regret it!
Carmen from Spain, volunteer of European Solidarity Corps in the school Nasza Dobra Szkoła, Katowice.
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